When we really see other people as they are without taking it personally, we can never be hurt by what they say or do.
When you make it a strong habit not to take anything personally, you avoid many upsets in your life. Your anger, jealousy, and envy will disappear, and even your sadness will simply disappear if you don't take things personally.
As you make it a habit of not taking anything personally, you won't need to place your trust in what others do or say. You will only need to trust yourself to make responsible choices.
When you refuse to take things personally, you can hardly be hurt by the careless comments or actions of others.
To master a relationship is all about you. The first step is to become aware, to know that everyone dreams his own dream.
If you know that you are only responsible for your half of the relationship, you can easily control your half. It is not up to you to control the other half.
If we respect, we know that our partner, or friend, or son, or mother, is completely responsible for his or her own half. If we respect the other half, there is always going to be peace in that relationship.
The quality of your communication depends upon the choices you make in each moment, whether you tune your body to love or to fear....Just by seeing where you are, just by changing your attention, everything around you will change.
If you are aware that no one else can make you happy, and that happiness is the result of love coming out of you, this becomes the greatest mastery of the Toltecs, the Mastery of Love.
The only way to master love is to practice love. You don't need to justify your love, you don't need to explain your love; you just need to practice your love.
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